In episode #17, Vanessa P. shares her experience with doing Step Four: Sex Inventory and Sex Ideal. "If you are using people--using sex, love, and relationships for any reason--you are still using. You're intoxicating yourself with the drama and the chaos. You are still being selfish in this way." Vanessa also shares her experience with making amends to her ex-boyfriend who recognized that her drinking was out of control and suggested she get help.